“My ex boyfriend is now seeing someone else. Is it too late for me”?
The simple answer is – no it is not too late.
Let me explain.
It hurts to see your ex boyfriend in a new relationship. And it may appear the two of them are very happy.
But really, you don’t know how well your ex boyfriend’s new relationship is going. When a couple first starts out, everything usually goes pretty well. This is mainly because the attraction is fresh and because both people are really making a strong effort to show off their best traits while hiding their worst attributes (more on that in a moment).
But as time goes on, a more complete picture begins to appear as your ex boyfriend’s new love interest begins to show chinks in the armor. Maybe the chemistry isn’t as good as it was in the beginning. Maybe the new person has beliefs or habits that can’t be overcome.
The point is, your ex boyfriend’s new relationship may not be as secure as it appears from the outside. And even if things are going well, your ex boyfriend may feel their new mate is not “marriage material” or even “long-term relationship material.”
What can you do about it? Well, lots of things.
Remember a few paragraphs ago when I said your ex’s new love is really showing off their best traits while hiding their worst attributes? You need to do the same, only on a more genuine level. Instead of hiding your worst attributes – get to work on them. And commit yourself to improving your strong points as well. You will appear more “real” and your commitment to improving yourself will act as an attractor as well.
When you see your ex, really bring out your positive characteristics, especially the ones they fell in love with initially. If your beloved was first attracted to your sense of humor, then tell a funny story, especially if it will remind your ex of fun times you shared together. That’s just an example but you get the picture. Make it a point to bring out your best traits when you are together.
“Yeah, but what about my ex’s new love?”
Well, if your ex boyfriend is having second thoughts about this new relationship, you can perhaps push things along by showing what a great person you are.
It’s all about contrast. Maybe your ex isn’t getting something in the current relationship that you provided. The thing that you have going for you is that your ex * did * fall in love with you before. And their current relationship might be missing the things, which they loved about you. So when you see your ex, your job is simply to bring out your best points and, through your actions, remind your ex of the things they initially loved about you.
Your ex might have already thinking about ending their new relationship, and your actions might push things along in that direction. Or maybe they weren’t thinking about breaking up, but when your actions remind your ex of your good times and why they fell in love with you, they might begin to see things more clearly.
So when you see your ex boyfriend, you may want to talk about your differences. You may want to ask them why they broke up, or why they are seeing someone new. Forget all that for now. None of that will return your ex boyfriend to you.
Instead, be fun, courteous, and the great person you already are. And if you take one thing from this newsletter, remember to bring out your best qualities when you run into your beloved.
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