Many of you have probably heard about No Contact and are wondering if it works. For those of you who don’t know, No Contact is basically about not initiating any communication at all with your ex. It is not recommended for every break up out there, but it does work on some.
When a couple breaks up, there are lots of hurts and pains that need to healed first before you can even consider the thought of getting back together. It’s a cliché, but time does heal.
It will also keep your ex from seeing you at your lowest moments. A break up can be really hard on a man, and it can make him act in ways that he normally wouldn’t do in regular circumstances. Using the No Contact will help you avoid doing things that may end up pushing your ex farther away and even out of your reach forever.
2. No Contact will give you both time to reflect and understand what went wrong
When you aren’t in contact with your ex, both of you can reflect on what happened and understand what went wrong. Maybe you’ve started to take for her granted, or maybe she misses how both of you acted in the beginning.
Whatever the reason, this time of No Contact will help you realize a lot of things and help you build a stronger relationship if you get back together. It will also give her time to reassess her feelings and will make her wonder if you two could’ve made things work if things had worked out differently.
3. No Contact will make her realize how much she misses you
When you enforce No Contact, it will give her time to miss you and remember the happy moments you spent together. She will start feeling lonely and recall the things you did together that can no longer be now that you’ve broken up.
But if you’re always calling her and acting that you’re there, she won’t be able to miss you and it won’t give her a reason to think of returning back to you.
No Contact is basically about you not initiating the contact and waiting for her to do it. Once she is able to go through these steps of healing, reflection and realization, then she will be the one to come to you.